Things He Wishes She Knew
Our last post gave all the men out there vital information on what women believe they NEED to know.
After more informal surveys, this time of many different men, MyQismah is bringing that same helpful data to all the ladies. Men of different ages, races, and backgrounds have helped answer these questions and we aggregated the top similarities.
Here it is, Things He wishes She knew….read, learn, remember. 
1. If I can laugh with you, I can love you.
2. If I’m attracted to your mind, your physical appearance won’t matter so much.
3. Being a team player is crucial. If I’m the bread-winner, then you should be contributing to the household in someway.
4. I enjoy surprises too.
5. I’m scared of losing my free time.
6. Just because I act like I don’t want to attend religious services, doesn’t mean I don’t want to. Just ask me.
7. If I’m not affectionate towards you, something is wrong.
8. A well endowed woman isn’t always better…it doesn’t matter the size, they are all fun.
9. Longer hair is always better.
10. It’s important for me that my friends like you.
11. I find you most attractive when we’re on the same page. We understand each other’s beliefs, values, etc.
12. I need you to be affectionate towards me.
13. I appreciate getting gifts that I need versus gifts I want because I usually put off buying things I need.
14. I purposefully forget things about our relationship to make you think that you know everything about the relationship.
15. Don’t ask me what I’m thinking. I’ll share if I want you to know.
16. I love it when you cook for me, even if you don’t really know how to cook.
17. I’m not a mind reader, so just tell me if something is bothering you.
18. Mean what you say.
19. I like to be chased also.
20. When I’m quiet, it’s not a bad thing….sometimes I don’t have anything on my mind. It’s possible.
21. Just because we’re in a committed relationship doesn’t mean you have to stop being a lady.
22. Sometimes I’m just not in the mood.
23. Give me credit when it’s due.
24. Please don’t ask for my opinion if you’re not prepared to hear the truth.
25. Don’t demand chivalry, appreciate it when it happens.
26. You aren’t the only one who can get insecure. I have my insecurities too.
27. I don’t need to see or hear about all your flaws on our first date.
28. Never try to change me fundamentally.
29. If I have to continually win your affection, then I feel like I’ll never fully have it. (that means I’ll consider this a waste of my
time/energy).
30. I can get moody too.
31. I like getting gifts just as much as you do.
32. I don’t trust your male friends.
33. It can be hard for me to open up, so please handle with care.
34. If you’re naturally outgoing, be mindful not to flirt with other men around me.
35. If you want to be treated as my equal, while being treated as a lady, give me the same respect and treat me like a man, especially in public.
36. If you are going to nitpick at all my faults, expect backlash.
37. It takes courage for me to ask you out, so don’t just flirt to flirt….make your intentions known from the start. If you’re not interested, stop.
38. Even though we may consider one another best friends, please take heed when talking about past relationships with me.
39. Men show their love in different ways. Some are verbal, but others can only show it through actions.
40. If you break up with a guy, don’t expect to be his friend right away. It takes time for me to heal too.
41. Before complaining about things I stopped doing that I did at the start of our relationship, stop and think about the things you used to do that you stopped doing.
42. It’s great if you continue to try to impress me even after you’ve won my heart. (i.e. dressing up)
43. If you tell me that your parents won’t like me, don’t be surprised if I don’t make an effort to impress them.
44. In dating, you pretty much have most of the control in regards to how far we go physically. If you hold out, it will mean I’ll learn to care for you more.
45. I like to be complimented too.
46. Self confidence is the ultimate turn on
Number 17 and 38 are serious. Good job girl